Just this morning I was deliberating upon how hectic our time here is. Because we are so preoccupied with our busy life schedule, I determined that often times we don’t take time to have fun on our journey . I once read there is no joyous ending to a wretched journey .
Quit rushing so fast and listen to the birds singing . Don’t be so eager to get where you are going but instead enjoy the ride .
If you are involved in a relationship, this is particularly true. The weekly grind of supporting a family , raising kids and a whole host of other things can take our attention away from giving our affection to our loved one .
There are times when I just want to bury my head in the sand and forget about it all . So is this the right answer ?
Part of the answer lies with how do you want your love one or special partner to feel about you and to treat you?
Do you want him or her to be happy with you? For most people the answer is pretty obvious. Almost every sane human would like to be wanted .
As amazing as this seems It will come as no surprise , it doesn’t happen all by itself . It takes some focussed effort . If you make an effort to treat them well they may just realize how much they adore you.
It seems that relationships are a two way street . Or to put it differently , you can’t have “one way” relationship and expect both parties to be happy with the relationship . You have to give it some effort if you expect them to give some effort back . Someone has to start , so why not make it you ?
Just like all things in this world . You reap what you sow.
If you want to make your boyfriend happy , try a little harder to show him that you love him . Stop sweating the small things Slip into some sexy lingerie unexpectedly on a romantic evening . Show him how much he means to you.
And if you have a wife that you want more attention from , you probably need to try harder yourself . Help her do the laundry . Take her out to dinner . Treat her to some lingerie for no reason at all . Take her out to to a play . Tell her how much you care about her .
Don’t forget to take a little time out of your hectic life to let the special one in your life know that you care about them and that they mean the world to you . What you recieve in return is certain to be far greater than the small amount of work that you had to do .
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