You have not been on a date in five years. Even since your spouse died, you spend time alone. You feel that you need to spend some time with people your own age but, you are not sure how to go about this task. It has been a number of years since you went out on a date and you have a fear of mature dating because; you are not sure you should be dating.
Of course, all of us, who have made it to middle age (are you middle aged when you reach forty or when you reach sixty?) desire to have fun just as the younger generation does. Being able to share fun times with another person is fantastic but, how do you get to know someone, if you are not dating?
Again, definition is something to take into consideration here. Should you go on a “mature date” to simply go on a picnic, or take a walk through a park? Are you looked down upon because you may want to go swimming, dancing, or even mountain climbing? Is a title really needed to classify you into a certain group who can date others in that same group?
Are you considered within this group because you might get to bed earlier, or rise later? Does the color of your hair (or lack of hair) determine if you can be in this dating class? If you have children older than twenty, does this make you more mature and more date-able?
The point is this, dating is dating. If you feel the need to get out on the town and have a dinner with a friend, who is your age, then you are out on a date. There is no need to label it one way or another. Who made anyone the god of determining who can be placed in this category or not?
You have every right to enjoy the life you have left. You get to choose how you spend it and with whom. The choice is yours and you never have to feel pressured to do anything you do not want to do.
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